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Uzo Aduba and her daughter Adaiba
The Emmy winner calls this phenomenon both “beautiful and hard.”
“The parents who are on the other side, where their kids are out of the house or have gotten married and have grandchildren of their own, they say, ‘It’s going so fast.’ I say, ‘I think I might understand a little bit of what you mean because I can’t believe we’re here already,'” Aduba says. “It’s hard work to be so happy that we’re here and to let them continue to grow and develop in this independent way, and then I say, ‘But don’t grow up too fast.’ You want to persevere.”
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In her new memoir, Aduba remembers her late mother Nonyem, who died of pancreatic cancer in November 2021, and talks about the influence her mother had on her throughout her life. Aduba wishes her mother could have been there during her pregnancy.
“When I was pregnant, I was often sad because I thought, ‘Man, of all the moments I wish she could be there for, I wish it was this one,'” Aduba admits. “I was also really sad because I was nervous because I didn’t have what I thought everyone else had, which was their mom to show you how to do it. I felt cheated because I couldn’t fully showcase those things to be a great mom to my daughter.”
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